One of the biggest problems I see with weddings, is when family members want to get involved-too much. While one is very lucky if they have people in their lives who care and want to help, you need to find out first how much they want to or think they are entitled to help.
I had a wedding where the bride’s aunt wanted to be TOO involved. She completely stressed the bride out as she continuously questioned her decisions. It came to the point the day of the wedding where she had come up with a rain plan that included moving the ceremony inside the house. (The bride had paid a couple thousand dollars for her rain plan so not to move it in the house.) Needless to say, the aunt really started to step on my and the caterer’s toes just an hour in to set-up. While I’m sure she meant well, she really had no idea what she was doing and just couldn’t understand that the bride had hired me to do what she thought she could do better. I had to tell her that it wasn’t her place. Keep in mind, the aunt told me she knew best because she does weddings all the time for free, and she “decorates working with a lot of glue”.